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Why is important to have a true friend in your life?|SundayMood

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Hey guys!
By this title you already know about what I will write. This is not one of those cheesy stories about true friend that you can find in every magazine. I’m here to share with you my experience and advises that I learned by making mistakes. As soon as you have read this title that one person pop up in your head. That one person that you think is your true friend. You may know him from the birth, nursery or primary school. Maybe you two are neighbors since you know for yourself. But your true friend isn’t necessary the one that you know since “forever”. Believe it or not, I met my true friend in High school. And we didn’t hang out since the first day. We build our friendship gradually. Today it’s something (I hope so) inseparably.  Having a true friend by your side doesn’t have any flaws it can just have benefits. He will always be there for you. If you are sad he’s here to make you laugh. If you have a problem he’s here to listen and to solve it with you. If everything is good in your life he’s here to tease you. Whenever you need a favor he will do it. If it’s something impossible he will try anyway. When you lose control he will calm you. But if it’s not danger for you he will join you. If you didn’t recognize the person that you think is your true friend in one of these cases that person probably isn’t your true friend. Of course that people are different. You know that person better than me. But the point is to be careful that this person isn’t in your life only to take advantage of you. Your whole life you will meet people and you will be deeply disappointed when you realize that they are here so they can use you. It don’t need to be because of money that you have it can also be because you’re good in school or because you’re popular in a company where they want to get in. Or because you are a naive person. There are many ways for someone to take an advantage of you and many people will do that when they get a chance. You need to be careful because someone can behave just like in cases I wrote above but they are secretly here to use you. But let’s not be paranoid. It’s wonderful to have a true friend but are you too true friend to him? Friendship doesn’t consist of taking – it consist of giving. I’m pretty sure that I heard somewhere this sentence. Anyway, all those things that you expect your friend to do for you, you should do for him. Be supportive and be a person that is always ready to help. Don’t expect from him to demolish towers and cities for you while you do nothing for him. It needs to be mutually. If you’re not in the mood to do something that he asked you for just set yourself in his place and realize why is he asking you to do this for him, and then ask yourself would he do it if he was in your place? Friendship is priceless. One of the biggest wealth today. Because in world like this it’s hard to find that true friend. So don’t lose him because of something stupid. Don’t ignore him when you have a boyfriend or girlfriend or if you are older because of your family. You will always need your true friend. I’m writing this all from my experience. I met many “wrong” friends and I suffered many times because of them till I found her and till I realized that I can never let myself to lose her.
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Ćao ljudi!
Po naslovu već vidite o čemu ću da pišem. I ne, ovo neće biti neka izlizana objava o prijateljstvu koju možete pročitati u svakom današnjem časopisu. Tu sam sa vama da delim svoja iskustva i savete na osnovu napravljenih grešaka. Da ne biste uradili ono što sam ja.
Čim ste pročitali naslov verovatno ste već pomislili na tu osobu, koju smatrate svojim pravim prijateljem. Moguće je da se znate još od rođenja, od jaslica ili od osnovne škole. A možda ste oduvek komšije, pa se od malena družite zajedno. Međutim, ne mora vam pravi prijatelj biti onaj kojeg znate “oduvek”. Verovali ili ne, ja pravog prijatelja nisam imala do srednje škole. Nismo se odmah ni počele družiti, već je to krenulo postepeno. A danas se razvilo u nešto  što je,nadam se, neraskidivo. Imati pravog prijatelja pored sebe nema svoje mane, već samo prednosti. Uvek će biti tu za vas. Ako ste tužni, da vas nasmeje. Ako imate problem,da vas sasluša i pokuša zajedno sa vama da nađe rešenje. Ako vam sve ide po volji, da vas konstantno zeza. Kada god vam treba usluga, učiniće vam je. Ukoliko je nešto nemoguće, bar će pokušati. Kada izgubite kontrolu, ako je opasno po vas tu je da vas urazumi. Ako nije opasno, pridružiće vam se. Ako niste u ovim slučajevima prepoznali osobu o kojoj mislite sve vreme da vam je pravi prijatelj, onda najverovatnije to ona i nije. Naravno, ljudi su drugačiji. Vi poznajete tu osobu bolje od mene. Ali poenta je da se pazite da ta osoba nije tu samo da vas iskoristi. Ceo život sretaćete ljude i bićete duboko razočarani kada shvatite da je većina tu da bi vas iskoristila. Ne mora to biti zbog novca koji imate, može biti i zbog toga što vam ide dobro u školi, ili ste popularni u društvu u koje bi on ušao.  A možda i zbog toga jer ste naivni. Mnogo je načina da vas neko iskoristi i većina kada vidi priliku to će i da uradi. Morate biti oprezni jer može neko i da se pretvara da vam je pravi prijatelj, ponašajući se u skadu sa slučajevima koje sam gore navela, a ipak želi da vas iskoristi. Ali, hajde da ne budemo paranoični. Divno je imati pored sebe pravog prijatelja, ali da li se i vi tako ponašate prema njemu? Prijateljstvo se ne sastoji od uzimanja, već od davanja. Prilično sam sigurna da sam negde čula već ovu rečenicu. Uglavnom, sve ono što želite da vaš prijatelj uradi za vas, uradite i vi za njega. Budite prava podrška i osoba koja je uvek spremna da pomogne. Nemojte očekivati da on za vas ruši kule i gradove, ako vi za njega ništa ne radite. Treba biti uzajamno. Koliko god vam bilo mrsko uraditi to nešto što traži od vas u tom trenutku, postavite se na njegovo mesto i shvatite zašto to nešto traži od vas, a onda se pitajte da li bi on učinio isto da vama treba ta usluga? Prijateljstvo je neprocenjivo. Jedno od najvećih bogatstava danas. Jer u ovom, čudnom, svetu teško je imati pravog prijatelja. Zato nemojte da ga izgubite zbog neke sitnice. Da ga zanemarite jer imate dečka/devojku ili porodicu, ako ste stariji. Pravi prijatelj će vam uvek biti potreban. Pričam vam sve ovo iz iskustva, jer na mnogo sam “lažnih” prijatelja naišla i mnogo puta sam se opekla zbog istih dok nisam nju upoznala i shvatila da ne bih mogla sebi da dozvolim da je izgubim.

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