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Verbal violence| Sunday mood

Hello darlings,

I think it’s pretty clear about what this post will be. This is a big topic that have many categories. But I will try to write the essence of it. As you all know beside physical there’s verbal violence that includes gossips, curses, humiliation etc. I know that this topic is so sensitive but I think that it’s finally time to not be taboo topic anymore. How many times did you heard that someone in school is talking to others about you? How many times you were witness to public humiliation of some person? And what you did? if you see something and you decide not to talk about it will make you guilty as someone that actually have done it. But if you are the one that is experiencing verbal violent you need to know that it’s not right.  No one has the right to talk bad about you even if you’re present. If you don’t like it don’t suffer because of it. Silence won’t help you. If it’s happening in school report it to school Psychologist. If they don’t do anything about it talk with your parents. Trust me, as older as you get you will more realize that parents are the only one that didn’t left you. But if you think that gossips aren’t for SP then you should stand for yourself. Try to solve it all with words. I think that’s really important to let people know that you’re not a toy or marionette. And that you have your own life and with it full right to do what you want and make decisions that you want. So you should always stand for yourself. As someone once said: “Think about yourself, others will rarely remember”.

I wish you great day and wonderful week!

stop-violence

Ćao dragi moji,

mislim da vam je jasno o čemu ću danas pisati. Ovo je jedna velika tema, koja se grana na više strana. Ali ja ću se potruditi da ono najbitnije obuhvatim. Kao što i sami znate, pored fizičkog, postoji i tzv. psihičko maltretiranje, pod koje spadaju ogovaranja, pogrdna imena, psovanje, poniženja itd. Znam da je tema teška, ali mislim da je došlo vreme da ne bude više “tabu” u našoj zemlji. Koliko puta ste čuli da neko u školi priča drugima nešto o vama? Koliko puta ste bili prisutni kada je neka grupica ponižavala osobu koja je/nije prisutna? I šta ste povodom toga učinili? Gledati i ništa učiniti čini vas podjednako krivim. Ali,ako ste upravo vi osoba koja to doživljava, morate shvatiti da to nije u redu. Niko nema pravo da loše o vama priča, makar vi bili prisutni. Ako vam se ne dopada treba da zaustavite to. Ćutanje vam neće pomoći. Ako se dešava u školi, obratite se školskom psihologu. Ako se ništa ne poduzme po pitanju toga, uvek možete svojim roditeljima da se obratite. Verujte mi, što više odrastate više ćete shvatati da su roditelji ti koji vas jedini nikad nisu napustili. Ako ipak mislite da ogovaranje nije za školskog psihologa, pokušajte rečima da to rešite sami. Mislim da je vrlo bitno da stavite nekome do znanja da vi niste igračka ili marioneta i da imate svoj život i da imate puno pravo da radite šta želite i donosite odluke koje hoćete. Dok to ne uradite, drugi će vas ogovarati i omalovažavati. Dakle, uvek se borite za sebe. Jer kao što kaže izreka: “Mislite na sebe, drugi će se retko setiti”.

Želim vam prijatan dan i divnu nedelju!

Love you guys!

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